Building a World of Belonging: Lessons in Autism Inclusion

Everyone deserves to feel like they belong. For autistic individuals and their families, finding that sense of belonging in the community can sometimes feel like a challenge. The world isn't always built with neurodiversity in mind, but dedicated advocates are working to change that, one event, one training, and one conversation at a time. 

This week on the Autism Weekly podcast, we had the pleasure of speaking with two passionate leaders from the Autism Society of Inland Empire: Clara Garcia, Director of Programs, and Melissa Cardona, Senior Resource Specialist. Both parents of autistic children themselves, they shared powerful insights on creating genuine autism inclusion, the magic of sensory-friendly events, and how community support can transform lives. 

ABS Kids is proud to be a community partner of the Autism Society of Inland Empire, where we also provide ABA therapy to the community.  

This blog will explore their  practical guidance for families and offer a message of hope for building a more accepting world. 

What Does Inclusion Really Mean? 

The word "inclusion" gets used a lot, but what does it look like in practice? Clara and Melissa explained that true inclusion is not a one-size-fits-all concept. Because autism is a spectrum, the supports needed for someone to feel included can vary greatly. 

For one person, inclusion might be a simple invitation to join an activity. For another, it might mean having specific accommodations, like allowing an ABA therapist to come along or providing a quiet space to decompress. It's about meeting people where they are and honoring their unique needs. 

Clara emphasized that inclusion is about creating a sense of belonging for the entire family. When an autistic child feels welcome, their siblings, parents, and caregivers also feel accepted. It removes the feeling of separation and fosters a shared community experience where everyone can participate together. 

The Power of Sensory-Friendly Events 

Many families avoid public outings like trips to the water park, movie theater, or zoo. The long lines, loud noises, and unpredictable crowds can be overwhelming, leading to sensory overload and meltdowns. The fear of judgment from others can also make these experiences stressful rather than fun. 

The Autism Society of Inland Empire tackles this challenge by creating sensory-friendly events designed for success. Melissa shared how they partner with community venues to create safe and accommodating environments. 

Here are a few examples of what that looks like: 

1. Private Movie Showings: The theater keeps the lights on, turns the sound down, and allows kids to move around freely. 
2. Gated and Secure Venues: Events are often held in enclosed spaces, like a gated baseball field, with a single exit. This provides a sense of security for parents, who can relax knowing their child can't wander off. 
3. Quiet Zones: A designated calm-down area is a staple at their events. Stocked with fidgets and noise-canceling headphones, it offers a sanctuary for anyone feeling overwhelmed. 
4. Reduced Capacity: By limiting the number of attendees, they ensure shorter lines and more personal space, reducing anxiety for everyone. 

These events do more than just provide a day of fun. They act as a practice ground. Families who attend these supported outings build the confidence to try visiting these places during public hours. As Melissa noted, even if a child only lasts for ten minutes, it's a ten-minute victory that can be built upon for the next outing. 

It Takes a Village: Training and Advocacy 

Creating inclusive communities isn't just about hosting events. It requires a systemic shift, and that starts with education. A major part of the Autism Society of Inland Empire's work is providing training and resources to community partners. 

They collaborate with: 

1. Parks and Recreation Departments: To help them develop adaptive recreational activities. 
2. Police and First Responders: To offer sensory training and provide sensory bags for their vehicles, ensuring safer interactions. 
3. Hospitals and Healthcare Providers: To improve care for individuals with complex needs. 
4. Airports: They even partnered with Alaska Airlines for an event that allowed families to practice the entire airport experience, from check-in to boarding a plane. 

Clara shared a heartwarming story from the airport event. A family, practicing for a future trip, successfully navigated the process. The experience turned a "maybe we can't" into a "maybe we can," opening up a world of travel possibilities they hadn't thought possible. This is the profound impact of thoughtful autism community support. 

Pushing for Change: Where Do We Go from Here? 

While progress has been made, there are still barriers to overcome. Clara and Melissa highlighted several areas that need more attention. 

1. Complex Needs and Crisis Support: There is a significant lack of services for individuals with complex behavioral and mental health needs, especially those in crisis. More funding and resources are desperately needed in this area. 
2. Culturally Diverse Resources: Families from diverse cultural backgrounds face unique barriers. There is a high demand for services like Spanish-speaking therapists and providers who understand different cultural values. 
3. Local Community Programs: Every city has a community center, but not all offer adaptive programs. Melissa urges parents to advocate at their local city council meetings. Officials often "don't know what they don't know," and parent voices are crucial for creating change. 

How You Can Foster Inclusion 

Feeling inspired? You don't have to be part of a large organization to make a difference. Here are some key takeaways for families and allies: 

1. Start Small: As Melissa advised, inclusion starts with you. Take that brave first step out the door. Try a short trip to a park or a quiet store. Come to a sensory-friendly event to build your confidence in a judgment-free zone. 
2. Find Your People: Connect with other families. Melissa spoke about parents forming "little pods" of support. These groups share resources, offer advice, and create a sense of community right in your own neighborhood. 
3. Advocate for Your Needs: Your voice matters. Talk to your local community center, library, or favorite restaurant about offering sensory-friendly hours or accommodations. As Clara mentioned, the needs of the community drive change. 
4. Reach Out for Help: Organizations like the Autism Society of Inland Empire are there to help you navigate resources, understand your rights, and connect you with support. You are not alone. 

Connect with the Autism Society of Inland Empire 

The work being done by the Autism Society of Inland Empire is a powerful example of how passion and dedication can build a more inclusive world. Their upcoming winter events, including a festive pre-party at the Living Desert Zoo on December 6, 2025 and a private event at Mulligan's Family Fun Center on December 14, 2025, are perfect opportunities to experience this community firsthand. 

To learn more about their events, find resources, or support their mission, visit their website at ieautism.org or find them on social media under the handle Autism Society Inland Empire.